March 31, 2006

Shock: Women Say One-Night Stands Are Immoral
— Ace

They didn't need to a study to confirm this. Women tell me this all the time.

I could further tell you that most women say "I have a boyfriend" or "Go away or I'm calling the bouncer." 75% of women, moreover, like to express themselves in nonverbal ways, such as with chemical mace.

Anyway.

They are apparently more sexually liberated than ever before - but most women still believe one-night stands are immoral, research shows.
Forty years after the dawn of women's lib, British females judge friends and acquaintances who indulge in casual sex as being 'needy' and 'deviant'.

The study of women's attitudes towards sex revealed that women of all ages believe that sex outside marriage or a committed relationship is wrong.

Those who have one-night stands do so out of desperation or drunkenness.

...

Researcher Dr Sharon Hinchliff asked 46 women aged 20 to 83 about their views on sex.

Ninety per cent thought casual sex was wrong and only 10 per cent admitted having a one night stand.

Women of all ages were judgmental of those who sleep around, with some of the younger women being harsher than the pensioners.

The women also had double-standards, with some of those who had had one night stands in the past saying it was wrong for others to do so.

Women have one standard for themselves and another for other people? There's the real bombshell in this study.

Posted by: Ace at 10:03 AM | Comments (39)
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1 most women express this opinion while hungover and walking to work in last night's clothes.

Posted by: ken at March 31, 2006 10:05 AM (xD5ND)

2 Double standard? Where is it written that we are required to repeat every error we make and urge others also to make the same errors? It seems pretty bizarre to label it a double standard.

Posted by: shawn at March 31, 2006 10:16 AM (uLve2)

3 They need to do a study on the percent of wives - who have already had all the children they want - who now believe that sex is a burden, irregardless of the morality issues. I'd like to check those numbers out.

Posted by: Sticky B at March 31, 2006 10:16 AM (9vsrW)

4 Only ten percent had one night stands? To heck with any plans to move across the pond.

Apparently they don't go to college there... or something.

Posted by: Birkel at March 31, 2006 10:24 AM (vtWaO)

5 The Ace of Spades Lifestyle apparently hasn't taken the majority of woman just yet

Posted by: trey at March 31, 2006 10:33 AM (o+cPa)

6 The Ace of Spades Lifestyle apparently hasn't taken the majority of women just yet

Posted by: trey at March 31, 2006 10:33 AM (o+cPa)

7 being 'needy' and 'deviant'.

they make it sound like it's a bad thing

Posted by: Dave in Texas at March 31, 2006 10:46 AM (pzen5)

8 I'm with you, Shawn. "Don't make the same mistake I did," is not a double standard. It seems to me a certain journalist just wasn't happy with the results of this survey, for some reason that couldn't possibly have anything to do with a certain kind of frustration...

Posted by: Nucular Nate at March 31, 2006 10:55 AM (+O2jK)

9 There's the RULE of THREES:

To determine the actual number of sex partners a person has had ...

Take the number of women a man claims to have slept with -- and divide it by three.

Take the number of men a woman admits to having slept with -- and divide it by three.

Women really do worry about being "slutty". They have a kind of "dickometer" imbedded in their psyches, and they really do worry about red-lining the thing. And women will often seek out former partners for occasional sex just to avoid increasing their "dick counts".

Posted by: Norman Rogers at March 31, 2006 11:01 AM (Eal+g)

10 Oops ... make that MULTIPLY by three for women

Posted by: Norman Rogers at March 31, 2006 11:02 AM (Eal+g)

11 "I've Never done this before."
"I'm really not this kind of girl"
"Please, don't ask my number, I just need to get this out of my system"
"I really like you, but this would never work." (the quad liplock, and the finale)
"What you must think of me!"
"I can't believe I'm doing this, no, don't stop"

Yeah, they say it's immoral ONLY because that makes it more "dirty" and thereby more fun. If it's a universal opinion, then I guess the quotes used to excuse the behaviour are passed out in a pamphlet apparently titled "Why one night stands are immoral, and what to say to clear your conscience before, during and after a one night stand."

Posted by: Wickedpinto at March 31, 2006 11:09 AM (QTv8u)

12 Translation: "If I go out & get boned by some guy, it's because I was lonely & craving a connection with someone. But those other girls are skanks."

Posted by: beautifulatrocities at March 31, 2006 11:19 AM (T/qwP)

13 "aged 20 to 83"

Ugh -- I think I just puked in my mouth a little...

Posted by: Scotian at March 31, 2006 11:47 AM (FP5y4)

14 How many dicks have you sucked?!

VERONICA
Let it go...

DANTE
HOW MANY?

VERONICA
All right! Shut up a second and
I'll tell you! Jesus! I didn't
freak like this when you told me
how many girls you fucked.

DANTE
This is different. This is important.
How many?!

She counts silently, using fingers as marks. DANTE waits on
a customer in the interim. VERONICA stops counting.

DANTE
Well...?

VERONICA
(half-mumbled)
Something like thirty-six.

DANTE
WHAT? SOMETHING LIKE THIRTY-SIX?

Posted by: Canelone at March 31, 2006 12:01 PM (1Vbso)

15 I don't believe its about morals. I believe women without realizing it, feel bad about one night stands because it is actually a too simple relinquishment of the only real power they have over men.

Posted by: roc ingersol at March 31, 2006 12:01 PM (m2CN7)

16 I don't believe its about morals. I believe women without realizing it, feel bad about one night stands because it is actually a too simple relinquishment of the only real power they have over men.

Posted by roc ingersol

Man! you just made a valid point without a joke. Now I'm down, you mean that me slaying all those skanks was actually a bad thing for feminism?

That sucks! Next I'll be told that fake tittied porn stars create a false impression of beauty for women and men alike, then my true favorite pass-time will be destroyed.

Posted by: Wickedpinto at March 31, 2006 12:11 PM (QTv8u)

17 I have nothing to say...you guys all ready know all my lines.

Posted by: kevlarchick at March 31, 2006 12:13 PM (bWRxm)

18
VERONICA
All right! Shut up a second and
I'll tell you! Jesus! I didn't
freak like this when you told me
how many girls you fucked.

DANTE
This is different. This is important.
How many?!



Canelone.......Exactly!, well stated.


Posted by: bodaciousflirt at March 31, 2006 03:23 PM (HEjoD)

19 Only ten percent admitted to one-night stands?? Haaaaaaaaaaaaaa. In that case, I accounted for most of them.

Oh, wait, I guess they weren't talking about the 70's....

Posted by: CraigC at March 31, 2006 03:27 PM (la985)

20 DANTE (to CUSTOMER)
My girlfriend sucked thirty-seven dicks!

CUSTOMER
In a row?

Courtesy the movie Clerks...

Posted by: Canelone at March 31, 2006 04:01 PM (1Vbso)

21 Don't worry. With the current Hollywood culture, teenagers will soon be mocking any other 16 year old girls who haven't had one nighters yet.

Then the final step will be to glamorize casual sex with older men, and remove any moral stigma to prostitution.

Posted by: Steve O at March 31, 2006 04:32 PM (R0Csm)

22 SteveO
Then the final step will be to glamorize casual sex with older men, and remove any moral stigma to prostitution.

Or teenage pedophilia.

"steeling Beauty" the "ravishing" of young girls by older men is reasonable, since it is BEST that they learn from an "experienced"/old, man.

Posted by: Wickedpinto at March 31, 2006 05:36 PM (QTv8u)

23 In a row?

Dammit, Canelone, that's one of my favorite lines in any movie, ever! And you stole my chance to use it.

Teach me to try and go out of the house and try to have a social life.

Dammit!

Posted by: wiserbud at March 31, 2006 06:03 PM (56ssE)

24 The final step is older men having sex with young boys. That one is a decade or two down the road yet, the very young girl/older man thing has been part of French cinema for a while now. Lately the older woman/young guy theme was played out a few times in movies like Tadpole here in the US.

Posted by: Canelone at March 31, 2006 08:33 PM (1Vbso)

25 So "Women Say One-Night Stands Are Immoral"? Offer to stay for breakfast!

Posted by: Bruce at March 31, 2006 09:51 PM (qQbej)

26 Man! you just made a valid point without a joke. Now I'm down, you mean that me slaying all those skanks was actually a bad thing for feminism?

Wickedpinto,

doesn't that kind of make you a "skank" too....I mean it does take two to do the deed.. well you know just saying....

Posted by: bodaciousflirt at March 31, 2006 11:10 PM (HEjoD)

27 The final step is older men having sex with young boys. That one is a decade or two down the road yet

It's already here. It's called the Roman Catholic Church.

Posted by: OregonMuse at April 01, 2006 07:37 AM (we8HZ)

28 And both the church and culture condemned it in violent terms. I'm talking about it being a trend that all the right talking heads start to defend and call people intolerant for condemning.

Posted by: Canelone at April 01, 2006 08:00 AM (1Vbso)

29 Bodacious
doesn't that kind of make you a "skank" too....I mean it does take two to do the deed.. well you know just saying....

I don't call my skankification (at that time) immoral, it was a good looking kid with all the right cards, doing what a good looking kid with all the right cards does. I was just getting in touch with the AoS Lifestyle within myself. If I hadn't started on that pathe before the birth of AoSHQ, I would likely be sending monthly checks for his life-coaching talents.

I don't make excuses for who I was or what I did. In another post, I have comments about how I got kicked out of highschool, In fact, it's funny, I LITTERALY got kicked as I left the class taught by a teacher who infuriated me, and well, actually it was my missed punch that got me expelled. That doesn't make me proud, but it's a true thing. Just like my willingness to avail myselve to the various skankdified slits, that begged for my machete to split their axe wounds.

We make choices, we judge ourselves by them, and then we change. It wasn't a-moral or immoral for me to do what I did, but what i did and who I was wasn't the RIGHT thing. Theres differences.

Posted by: Wickedpinto at April 01, 2006 02:39 PM (QTv8u)

30 Just like my willingness to avail myselve to the various skankdified slits, that begged for my machete to split their axe wounds.

Wickedpinto,

Now there's a charming visual!....you romantic guy you!

So ya saying you "were" a skank while doing the skanks whom, could not resist you because you were so tasty and being the sweet young thing you were, you just went with the flow in order to become a more enlightened man.

Well see all the training just so you could be a wonderful AoHQ regular.

Posted by: bodaciousflirt at April 01, 2006 02:53 PM (HEjoD)

31 Call me simple but how is not being right somehow different than being immoral?

Posted by: at April 01, 2006 03:29 PM (1Vbso)

32 Call me simple but how is not being right somehow different than being immoral?


C'mon you can't see how a young studly male with the job title (that is the utlimate panty remover) is just going through the justified male rite of passage.... Where as those cheap skanky women were simply out to have a good quick orgasm.... THAT is so different in comparison. No that is NOT a double standard and those women should have a scarlet letter for life.....

Yeah I am not buying it either!

Posted by: bodaciousflirt at April 01, 2006 03:51 PM (HEjoD)

33 Bodacious? I admit, I was not RIGHT, I said that in my first description of my willingness to feed on the skankdified slit splitting whores who loved my JOB DESCRIPTION!

I AM tall, I AM slim, and BACK THEN I was very fit. Horny broads couldn't nail Brad pit as he was from "fight club" but I was taller, and I looked something, in body like him. I don't think MY actions are proper, but I don't regret them, LARGELY because I will tell you this. I was a tall, slim fit young man, who was in the Marine Corps, and I had a VERY good body at that time, and I realized something after my 3rd or 4th phone call. I wanted a WOMAN, I wanted a MATE, but after my various failures I realized that I wasn't a BAD boyfriend, but that it was _I_ as a well made man who was the trophy.

I was the trophy, I was the WHORE! I was the sugar that flavored the spring breakers who hit Palm Springs when I visited the town. At that time? I was the story that WOMEN told, I was the Marine who ran half marathons, I was the ab fit, shoulder stolid, the Thigh built, and the calf DRIVING flesh dildo that women wanted.

THEN. I will die alon, because I know how Superficial women are, because, I LOVE, I know what LOVE is, but I had been USED as a "skank" by women, I had been nothing more than a flesh dildo.

I am NOT at all impressed by the "dignity" of women. Men are every bit the objects women think they themselves were.

Is that feminism? to make men Dislike you as much as you dislike men?

Posted by: Wickedpinto at April 01, 2006 11:27 PM (QTv8u)

34 Annonymous said
Call me simple but how is not being right somehow different than being immoral?

Not being right allows for a chance for correction. A-Moral as you said,DEFINATELY speaks to an unwillingness to ANY judgement. I'm not a-moral, Nor was I, I think I might have made a wrong decision, though I don't regrett it. THAT is the difference annonymous.

Posted by: Wickedpinto at April 01, 2006 11:44 PM (QTv8u)

35 Wickedpinto:

Wow, that was enlightening....my first thought was you had held youself above the whole process....but upon reading your response....I think touhe!...my point actually was....that both parties were equal....and everyone can change or regret and move on. That is what makes a great person...to not keep making the same mistakes that might eat at your soul!

I choose not to believe that ALL men nor ALL women are any one way.....but instead look at "people" on an individual basis.

My personal ethics are what allow ME to sleep peacefully at night. Everyone has their own code of ethics and sense of right and wrong and what allows them to sleep peacefully at night.

You just need to meet a good woman!

Posted by: bodaciousflirt at April 02, 2006 02:07 AM (HEjoD)

36 Without going into detail, Wickedpinto is absolutely right, there are not a few women who want men as a piece of meat and little else. If you happen to be attractive to women, it's hard to find one that isn't this way sometimes.

Now, some guys are going to think that's a great life, but deep down you know it's not and when you want something better and more lasting, that's when it is the most frustrating. Because like men, women will lie gleefully and through their teeth to get what they want sometimes.

Posted by: Canelone at April 02, 2006 05:44 AM (1Vbso)

37 Now, some guys are going to think that's a great life, but deep down you know it's not and when you want something better and more lasting, that's when it is the most frustrating. Because like men, women will lie gleefully and through their teeth to get what they want sometimes.


Canelone:

I very much agree....the door swings both ways. There are self-serving Men and Woman.....that will lie through their teeth to get what they want. I just don't think it is Gender specific.

Posted by: bodaciousflirt at April 02, 2006 07:10 AM (HEjoD)

38 I AM tall, I AM slim, and BACK THEN I was very fit.

So, like now your Tall, Slim, flabby and old with no hair and like to cuddle? Sounds like your perfect for the trophy wife cycle of life. Old Old guys are the best!

It's the reload time that can suck at this stage(lol)...you only get one shot so got to hope the guy is not trigger happy! Better make sure to understand the tootsie pop theroy and make it last a LONG time

Posted by: ewc at April 02, 2006 09:44 AM (HEjoD)

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